Ways to Get Help

Get emotional and mental health support

You’re not alone. Connect with a trained volunteer Crisis Counselor for free support, 24/7.

Visit Crisis Text Line, a nonprofit, to learn more

Report

You can report images and the person who shared them with you to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. They work hard to keep people safe and will make your report available to law enforcement.

Visit NCMEC CyberTipline to learn more

Be safe online

Navigating the internet is tricky. NoFiltr has resources that can be helpful.

Visit NoFiltr to learn more

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, please call 911.

  • Photos and videos that you receive or try to send that may contain nudity are blurred by your device in select Apple apps. Apple cannot access these photos and videos. You decide whether to open or send?them.

    Before opening a blurred photo or?video:

    • Ask yourself: “Do I know and trust this person?” If not, delete?it.
    • Tell a trusted adult if you feel pressured or intimidated, or if the photo or video is from an?adult.

    Before sending a nude photo or?video:

    • Ask yourself: “Is someone pressuring me to share it?” If so, don’t send it. Get help from a trusted?adult.
    • Remember that once you send a photo or video, you lose control of it. It could be forwarded or posted publicly, and someone could use it to extort you (“sextortion”) by threatening to share it unless you meet their?demands.
    • Never share nude or intimate photos of other people. It’s a betrayal of?trust.

    Keep in mind:

    • Sending nude photos or videos isn’t necessary for a good?relationship.
    • Just because you trust someone now doesn’t mean you’ll trust them in the?future.
    • If you lose control of your photo or video, there are people and resources to help?you.
    • Sharing nude images of anyone under 18 may be against the law. It’s safest not to make, send, or keep?them.

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  • To stay safe online:

    • Be careful about interacting online with people you don’t know in person. They may not be who they say they?are.
    • Avoid sending or exchanging nude or intimate photos or videos, and avoid conversations that are sexual in nature, especially with adults or people you don’t know in?person.
    • If someone harasses you sexually or asks for nude photos or videos, save the evidence, report the content, block or mute the account, and tell a trusted?adult.
    • Avoid in-person meetings with people you meet?online.
    • Be honest about your age when signing up for apps that ask for it. Some apps have built-in protections for?teens.
    • Think carefully before sharing personal information about yourself, family members, and?friends.
    • Use strong and unique passwords, and don’t share them. When possible, use two-factor authentication, Touch?ID, and Face?ID.
    • Know how to block and report posts, conversations, or people that make you?uncomfortable.
    • Treat people respectfully, and don’t respond to mean or disrespectful?comments.

  • Grooming

    People who want to abuse you sexually may start by befriending you to gain your trust. It’s called grooming.?Be on the lookout for warning signs of grooming.

    The person might:

    • Try to establish a close friendship with you?quickly.
    • Contact you on multiple apps.
    • Message you a lot.
    • Ask you to engage in a live chat, video, or voice?conversation.
    • Give you money or gifts and perhaps ask you to hide?them.
    • Attempt to isolate you from friends or?family.
    • Talk about romance, love, or sex.
    • Request nude or sexually explicit photos or?videos.
    • Ask you to hide the relationship from friends or?family.
    • Blame you for what’s happening.
    • Claim that you will get into trouble if you tell?anyone.
    • Threaten to hurt you, your family, a pet, or other loved ones if you say?anything.
    • Try to convince you to feel sorry for?them.

    If you notice any of these signs, remember that it’s not your fault. Get help from a trusted?adult.

    Sextortion

    Grooming can lead to sextortion. Sextortion occurs when someone threatens to share your intimate or?private photos or videos unless you do what they want — like sending money, sharing more photos, or performing sexual acts. It’s usually done by online scammers, but sometimes it can come from someone you know. Sextortion is a crime in most places.

    Steps to protect yourself:

    • Criminals may offer to send you photos or videos if you send your photos first, but that’s just a trick to get your images and use them against you. Don’t fall for?it.
    • Never share a nude or intimate image with anyone who approaches you online, especially if you don’t know and trust them in real?life.
    • If they have your image, don’t send money, more images, or anything else they demand. If you don’t comply, they might move on. Even if you do comply, they might ask for?more.
    • Save the evidence. Take screenshots or keep the messages so you can share them with law?enforcement.
    • Block them. Stop further?contact.
    • Get help. Talk to a trusted adult, report it to the police, and if it’s someone from school or work, tell school officials or the proper?authorities.
    • Protect your accounts. Use Apple’s Safety?Check and the Personal Safety User Guide to lock down your information and cut ties with unsafe?contacts.

    It’s not your fault. People who try to exploit others are the ones breaking the law. Reach out to a parent, another trusted adult, or support services. You don’t have to go through this alone — you will get through?it.

  • If someone is repeatedly mean to you or others online, that’s cyberbullying. Imagery containing nudity can be used to bully. It’s not your fault. No one deserves to be treated cruelly or made to feel?uncomfortable.

    If you are being cyberbullied:

    • Stay calm, and don’t retaliate. Responding in anger can escalate and prolong the?situation.
    • You do not need to respond. If someone sends you an inappropriate image or content that makes you uncomfortable, you can get?help.
    • Ask the person to stop. If they don’t, block or mute the?account.
    • Save the evidence. Take a screenshot of the content. Report the content, and block or mute the account. If you think the person goes to your school, you can report the cyberbullying to a teacher, the school counselor, or the?principal.
    • Reach out for help. Talk to a trusted adult and friends for?support.

    If you’re aware of someone being?cyberbullied:

    • Keep cool. You can stand up for a friend, but never?retaliate.
    • Show your support. If possible, send a kind message to the person being?cyberbullied.
    • If the targeted person goes to your school, let them know you have their?back.

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